The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory by Dedeker Winston

Point your IRC client at and type /join #reddit-poly Posting attacks on the poster or the poster's partners/situation in a support thread may be ground for an immediate ban. This rule should be self-explanatory, but in case it isn't: being aggressive towards other posters and causing irrelevant arguments may cause your comments to be removed, and if you continue it may end in a ban.

This includes derailing of advice and support posts, and posting poly-shaming under the guise of 'concern' or 'just trying to help.'ĭon't be a jerk. But specifically, concern trolling is a no-warning ban. First offense may be a warning, but depending on the severity and the user's history in the subreddit, it may be an immediate ban. Personal attacks on anyone are not allowed and may result in a ban. Some words are automatically filtered by Automoderator, for the moderators to review. Certain slurs are grounds for an instant ban. Posts and comments are removed for use of slurs and for personal attacks. This includes (but is not limited to) attacks on anyone's gender or sexual identity, racism, sexism, slut shaming, poly-shaming, mocking, and victim blaming. Absolutely no bigotry, misogyny, misandry or intolerance. This includes asking how to find 'a third', 'a unicorn', or multiple women to date only you and maybe each other. Same with commenting anywhere attempting to do the same. If you post asking for people in your area, or anything looking like a personals ad, it will be removed. Personal ads and the like are not allowed. If the above description isn't what you're looking for, try /r/nonmonogamy, /r/swingers, /r/adultery, or /r/findareddit. Polyamory is only one specific type of ethical non-monogamy. Posts must be relevant to polyamory, as defined by our community description: Polyamory is openly, honestly, and consensually loving and being committed to more than one person.

This community doesn't have many rules, but please keep in mind that we should all be respectful and play nice. Please read the full rules and descriptions of the rules here.

For more general ethical sluttiness, responsible non-monogamy, and related non-traditional relationship styles, check out /r/NonMonogamy Rules Polyamory is openly, honestly, and consensually loving and being committed to more than one person. News, views, and issues around polyamory, polyfidelity, poly people, and related issues.

The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory by Dedeker Winston